In Memoriam

Brother & Sister Elks who were Past Exalted Rulers and who have been reported to the website are posted below. Please understand that the information provided here was that which we happened to have in our archives, or that which was sent in. To submit names or information, please send an email to .  

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Passing of Walter Birdsell PDD of Derby Lodge No. 571

It is our sad duty to announce the passing of Past District Deputy Walter Birdsell of Derby Lodge No. 571.  Walt passed away on September 2,  2026. On Wednesday, September 9th, friends may call from 4:00 to 7:00 PM at the Edward F. Adzima Funeral Home, 253...

Passing of Jerome ‘Jerry’ Coolidge PER of Derby Lodge No. 571

It is our sad duty to announce the passing of Past Exalted Ruler Jerome 'Jerry' Coolidge of Derby Lodge No. 571.  Jerry passed away on August 11, 2026.  Jerry served as Exalted Ruler for 5 years, beginning in 2011, and was awarded Honorary Life Membership in 2019....

Passing of Alex Coriaty PDD of Willimantic Lodge No. 1311

It is our sad duty to announce the passing of Past District Deputy Alexander 'Alex' Coriaty of Willimantic Lodge No. 1311.  Alex passed away on Friday, July 17, 2026, after a courageous battle with cancer. One of Alex’s longtime passions was being a member of the...

Services Announced for PDD John Barry of Southing Lodge No. 1669

John M. Barry, Past District Deputy, and Life Member of Southington Lodge No. 1669 passed away January 1,2026 at the Moffitt Cancer Center in Florida. John was Exalted Ruler of Southington Lodge in 1999-2000 and again in 2000-2001. He served the Grand Lodge as...

Passing of PSP Bill Miller, PER of Danbury Lodge

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of one of the most outstanding Elks to serve our Order. Past Exalted Ruler and Past State President, William (Bill) Miller of Danbury Lodge passed away on Monday evening. Obituary for William Edward MillerNovember...

Passing of Elizabeth “Betsy” Santerre, PER of Putnam Lodge

With heavy hearts, we remember the life of Elizabeth "Betsy" Carpenter Santerre - beloved mother, daughter, sister, aunt, friend, and devoted member of our community. After a courageous four-year battle with cancer, Betsy passed away peacefully on August 3, 2025, at...

Passing of James P. Patchell Jr., PDD of Milford Lodge #1589

It is our sad duty to inform you that James P. Patchell Jr., PDD (2018-2019) and a Past State Bowling Fundraiser Chairman, has passed away peacefully on March 17, 2025.  Jim was active on multiple DD suites and a 2-year PER for Milford Lodge #1589 from 2010-2012. ...

Passing of Jack Clifford PDD of Waterbury Lodge No. 265

It is our sad duty to announce the passing of Past District Deputy Jack Clifford of Waterbury Lodge No. 265.  Jack passed from our midst on Saturday, May 24th.  Jack was a man of family, integrity, generosity, and wisdom that had to be experienced to understand. He...

Passing of Leon R. Zahaba, Jr., PGLC, PSP

It is our sad duty to inform you that Leon R. Zahaba, Jr., Past State President, Past Grand Lodge Committeeman, has passed away after a long illness. Calling hours will be held on Thursday, May 8th from 2-5 pm at the New Britain Memorial-Sagarino Funeral Home located...

Passing of Brian Zahaba

It is our sad duty to inform you that Brian Zahaba, son of Past State President, Past Grand Lodge Committeeman, Leon Zahaba has passed away after a long illness. Calling hours and funeral arrangements are currently being formulated. We will post more details as they...

Elks 11 O’Clock Toast

You have heard the tolling of 11 strokes.

This is to remind us that with Elks, the hour of 11 has a tender significance.

Wherever Elks may roam, whatever their lot in life may be, when this hour falls upon the dial of night, the great heart of Elkdom swells and throbs.

It is the golden hour of recollection, the homecoming of those who wander, the mystic roll call of those who will come no more.

Living or dead, Elks are never forgotten, never forsaken.

Morning and noon may pass them by, the light of day sink heedlessly in the West, but ere the shadows of midnight shall fall, the chimes of memory will be pealing forth the friendly message,

“To our absent members.”